Have you taken the time lately to reflect on your accomplishments? Often times we get so caught up in what we need to do, what we didn’t finish, and our failures that we skip over all the amazing things we’ve accomplished. Well, today is the day that we pump the brakes and actually take a moment to relish in your greatness. In today’s episode I’m going to tell you all the ways and reasons why you are dope! I’m going to help you see that even though you may not be where you want to be, you have so much to be proud of, and so I hope to inspire you to pat yourself on the back.
Today I’m channeling my inner Martin and saying “You Go Girl!” This episode is an ode to you and all the reasons why you are amazing, all the reasons why you should be proud of yourself, all the reasons why you are worth it, and because of this, all the reasons why you should keep going! So you may be wondering, why is she doing this? Well, here’s what I know from personal experience: we don’t give ourselves enough credit. We can do 1,000 amazing things in a week, but we will find a way to point out that one thing we didn’t do and just gloss over all the amazingness. I’ve done it myself. The need for this episode dawned on me when I looked at my calendar on Friday and I say ALLL the things that were crossed off that I had done. From seeing clients, to working out, to appointments for my kids, and writing and research. Then I thought about all the things that I did that was not on the calendar such as cooking, cleaning, spending time with family, running errands, and so on. And even though I had a very full week and I accomplished a lot…all I could focus on was that one task I didn’t finish by the date I had set. And after beating myself up for a few minutes for not getting it done, it hit me…I had done A LOT! I had done so much that I probably can’t remember all the things I’ve done and here I was griping about this one thing. In that moment I looked at my calendar, smiled, and pat myself on the back. Because the truth is, I was bomb this week. I’m bomb almost every week, if I’m honest. And so are you. But I’m not sure if you know it. Guys we are hard on ourselves and we can be our own worst critics. If someone else told you all the things they went through and accomplished everyday you’d be giving them a round of applause. Well, it’s about time you do that to yourself.
So if you still aren’t convinced that you’re this dope and awesome person, let me give you a few reasons why you should pat yourself on the back. Now before I begin, yes, I understand that none of us are perfect. All of us still have work to do and we are always growing, but there are times when we have to come up for air and look around at what we’ve done in life. We must reflect and smile at what we’ve done. Often times, this is will the what helps us keep going. So, now, on to why you’re dope.
Reason #1: You wear so many hats, and you make them look good! Mom, professional, student, daughter, sister, friend, auntie, teacher, mentor, chef, chauffeur, coach, and many so much more. You wear some or all of these hats, and sis, you’re killing it. Again, it doesn’t mean you are perfect. It doesn’t mean that you don’t get tired. But in spite of it all, you balance all those hats on your head not letting one fall to the ground. You are constantly doing what you have to do for yourself and others and believe me, the people in your life appreciate you for it.
Reason #2: You’re trying. Life isn’t perfect, but doggoneit, everyday, you’re trying to be the best person you can. You’re constantly setting goals, you’re constantly taking in things that will help you be a better person. Shine, the fact that you are listening to his podcast is a sign that you are making efforts every week to be better, and it is my prayer that they are helpful. Trying sounds very simple, but you would not believe how many people go day after day not trying to do anything or achieve anything. But you continue to move forward so that you and those connected to you can live life to the fullest, and that my dear, makes you dope.
Reason #3: You care. The fact that you’re wearing these hats and the fact that you’re trying shows that you care. You care about your life. You care about your impact. You care about those around you. Caring is important because it means that you realize that life is so much bigger than you. The fact that you’re going to school shows that you care about going to the next level. You starting that business shows that you care about your legacy and positively impacting others. There are so many things you can be and do in this world that are meaningless, but you care, which is why you’re working so hard to be great. It’s not easy, but you keep pushing everyday. You care about your body, so you’ve been working out. You care about your community so you’ve been working on making a change in it. We live in a society where it seems like people only care about themselves and being instafamous, but you care about so much more than that…and that makes you dope!
My final reason, #4 of why you’re awesome is Your Resume. Sometimes, the best way to bring things into perspective is to look back at the past. How many amazing things have you don’t this month, this year, since you were born?!?! I’m sure you can think of a few. Girl, you’ve been dope for a long time, sometimes you just have to look back at it, the past, that is, and remind yourself of your greatness. Let’s see…how many degrees do you already have? How many certifications do you have? How many years have you been killing it on the job? How long have you been an amazing mom? How many times have you had a positive impact on others? How many times did you do something that you initially thought you couldn’t handle? Go ahead and count…I’ll wait. What I’m trying to get you to see is that greatness is in you and you’ve been exuding it you entire life, you just need to “remember who you are” (in my Mufasa voice).
I’m done with my list, but I hope that you can keep going with all the reasons why you are bomb. Listen, we’re not bragging. But I think you needed a reminder that it is ok to be great and know it. Know that you’re killing it! Embrace it! And let this encourage you to keep going. It can be hard to keep going and going and going if you never feel like you’re going anywhere or you’re actually moving forward. Reflection is necessary. Stop being so meek and mild and strut your stuff…especially with yourself. Not telling others about your greatness is one thing, but not telling YOURSELF is unacceptable. You have to know your power. You have to know your greatness. You are dope. Believe that, and now go walk in it.
So I hope that you feel inspired to pat yourself on the back every once and a while. To reflect and tell yourself the many reasons why you are great. And to not get bogged down in the undone things from week to week, but to focus on being the best you possible. You go girl!
So until next time stay encouraged and inspire someone else along the way.